Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Pamper Yourself At Pulai Desaru Beach Resort and Spa

Jacuzzi

Back scrubs to wash away stress


DESARU: IF you are in the mood to pamper yourself, drop into the Pulai Desaru Beach Resort and Spa for a back scrub.

Among the popular scrubs the spa offers are citrus salt, Balinese Boreh and Javanese Lulur.

Spa supervisor Noorshamila Mohd Nor, 29, said the Balinese Boreh soothes tired muscles and joints; and improves blood ciruculation, as well as aid the digestive system.

"The citrus salt scrub consists of an aromatic oil blend, citrus and sea salt, while the Balinese Boreh uses a mix of spices such as ginger, clove, cinnamon and ground rice," she said, adding that the spa has six therapists.

As for the Javanese Lulur, Noorshamila said the treatment uses a body paste made out of sandalwood, turmeric, and rice powder to exfoliate and 'polish' the skin.

Besides back scrubs, the spa also offers facials, foot spa, its signature Pulai massage and a therapeutic back massage.

The spa, located near Bandar Penawar, opens from 9am to 8pm from Sundays to Thursdays. On Fridays and Saturdays, the spa operates from 9am to 10pm.

For details, call 07-822 2222.

Pulai Desaru Beach Resort & Spa

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Venerable Master Hsing Yun



There's much to be thankful for

03 December 2013
IN my previous commentary, I was motivated to talk about respect when I heard lovely Christmas songs playing inside a shopping mall in Johor Baru.

I guess I was inspired by the thought that the world would be a better place if people knew how to respect one another in spite of their differences.

Today, I want to focus on gratitude, and my inspiration for this came after a visit to the One Stroke Calligraphy exhibition at Sutera Mall in Johor Baru.

The exhibition was originally supposed to have been held for two weeks, but due to encouraging public response, the event has been extended to Dec 15.

The show features works by the Venerable Hsing Yun, who was born into a poor family and became a Buddhist monk at the age of 12.

When he was about 17, he was down with a serious illness, his teacher sent someone to deliver half a bowl of pickled vegetables to him. The person tasked to deliver the food had to travel a long distance to get to the young monk.

As he tearfully ate the bowl of pickled vegetables, he made a vow to always remember his teacher's kindness.

Now 86, the Venerable Hsing Yun is still giving motivational talks to Buddhist devotees around the world.

I don't know if this kind of grateful attitude is still practised by today's young people. I did notice many people giving thanks on Facebook during Thanksgiving on Nov 28. Yes, it is so important to give thanks.

But in today's world, what is more common is when you do a hundred good things for someone, but that someone will only remember the one bad thing you did to him or her.  Has that happened to you before?

Anyway, the Ven Hsing Yun was so adamant in expressing his gratitude to his teacher that he started The Water Drop teahouses, which can now be found in various parts of the world.

In Johor Baru, one can find The Water Drop teahouse on the fourth floor of the Sutera Mall, which is next to the newly-opened My Library.

The teahouse derives its name from the gratitude expressed in the old saying, "a drop of water's worth of kindness repaid with a gushing spring".

Hopefully, those who dine here often will remember to repay the drop of kindness from their parents, their teachers, and their country with a gushing spring. Only a grateful life can be a rich life.

And since My Library is just located next to The Water Drop teahouse, I can't help but also mention a little bit about this establishment.

According to a My Library officer, Ginny Lim, nearly 300 people and corporate bodies have joined as members of the library, which receives an average of 5,532 visitors daily since it opened on Nov 18.

Besides an assortment of magazines, books and audio materials, the library also has facilities for rental. These include rooms for discussions, seminars and kids' activities.

One can also order coffee or tea from The Water Drop teahouse while reading at the library.

This library is a corporate social responsibility programme of Tanah Sutera Development Sdn Bhd, the property developer that manages the Sutera Mall.

The management, which has been nurturing the local community with education and culture, has been organising programmes like the One-Stroke Calligraphy exhibition annually since it started operations in 2008.

The theme is different each year, but it is always of a cultural nature and with educational values.



The library also is becoming a favourite haunt for both children and adults. At the library, I saw some children flipping through the pages of the books with great care.

However, there were also some who were running around making a lot of noise. It is very important to maintain silence in a library as people are there to read.

The idea of setting up a library in a shopping mall is a novel one. For that, I am grateful to Tanah Sutera, for having the foresight and the drive to mix retail with education and culture.

Monday, December 2, 2013

Heart and Mind


Treadmill


I did an electrocardiography (ECG) for the first time.  I was then referred by the clinic to go for a stress test at a specialist hospital.  I went for ECG after experiencing discomfort in the chest for three consecutive nights.

So I spent the entire day at the hospital today.  First, it was the urine and blood test, then X-Ray, followed by the treadmill test.  

The treadmill test was the most fun.  The friendly nurse placed electrodes on my body, namely around the chest area.  The sticky patches were attached to an ECG monitor that showed the electrical activity of my heart rate as the treadmill's speed and incline changes every 3 minutes or so.

It started out slow, then got faster.  But I am happy to say that I completed the 10-minute test without much of a problem.

The nurse told me that I can also go for an electrocardiogram if I want as that would be even more accurate than the treadmill test.

After all the test results were out, the consultant cardiologist and physician Dr Yap Sau Peng looked at them and said my heart is ok.  The discomfort is probably due to other things. 

It could be my inability to not sweat the small stuff.  When I broke the news to my housemate that I had been referred for a stress test, I thought she'd be sympathetic.  She was angry instead.  After hearing her out, I think she has a point.  

I need to practise detachment. I need to think: "It's none of my business." And not take things personally.  I need to laugh more.

"'How people treat you is their karma, how you react to it is yours".  - Wayne Dyer.

Let me end this post by saying Thank You to each and everyone who cared enough to send their kind thoughts and wishes.  

Thank you so much. 

And the entire tests and consultation costs Ringgit Malaysia RM675. Peace of mind. Good night.






Friday, November 29, 2013

The Gratitude for a Drop of Water

Repaid With a Gushing Spring 

 



The Water Drop teahouse, found on the 4th floor of the Sutera Mall in Johor Baru is a story born from Venerable Master Hsing Yun's gratitude  Master Hsing Yun was born in Chiangtu, Chiangsu province, China, in 1927. 

The teahouse derives its name from the gratitude expressed in the old saying "a drop of water's worth of kindness repaid with a gushing spring."  We must all repay the drop of kindness from our parents, our teachers, and our country with a gushing spring .  Only a grateful life can be a rich life.

Master Hsing Yun was struck with serious illness at age 17 or 18.  His master sent someone to travel a long way to deliver half a bowl of salted vegetables to him.  To people today, this may not be much but at that time it was a rare delicacy.  Master Hsing Yun was overcome with gratitude as he tearfully ate the pickled vegetables and made a vow to spread the Dharma for the benefit of living beings.

I read this from the book "Buddha Land in the Human World" written by Pan Xuan together with Master Hsing Yun.  This book was given to me by Tanah Sutera Development Sdn Bhd general manager Steven Shum today. The book is tagged RM40 but to me, it is a priceless gift.  It is gift of the Dharma.

Steven also shared with me that the society is the best place for a person to cultivate spiritual development.  The removal of greed, hatred and ignorance is not easy but it can be done, says Steven.

"Meditation, chanting, volunteering, reading Dharma books, doing good ...these are all cultivation," he adds.

The Sutera Mall, managed by Tanah Sutera Development, is extending the duration of the "One Stroke Calligraphy exhibition, which was initially scheduled from Nov 18 to Dec 1. It is now extended to Dec 15.

Don't miss the One Stroke Calligraphy exhibition which tells the inspiring journey of the Master's life and his work. The event is jointly organised by Tanah Sutera and Fo Guang Shan Malaysia, Johor.

"Don't Look At My Writing, Please Look At My Heart".

Make a trip to the Sutera Mall before the exhibition wraps up.  It will be worth your while.

The Sutera Mall, which started operations on Aug 2008 and receives an average of 600,000 shoppers monthly, is organising events such as this to nurture the community with culture and edcuation.

Meanwhile, over at the newly-opened My Library,

Ginny Lim

Ginny Lim, 23, a library officer at My Library, said a total of 278 people and corporate bodies had joined as members.  The library receives an average of  5,532 visitors daily since it opened on Nov 18.

The Wall Street Journal is found at My Library

Besides an assortment of magazines, books and audio materials, the library also has facilities for rental, namely, rooms for discussions, seminars and kids' activities.  One can also order coffee or tea from the Water Drop teahouse while you indulge in reading at the library.

Thursday, November 28, 2013

Party of 11

Yes, I included the cat in the headcount.


I had a bad day at the office.  Though that is quite normal, I allowed myself to be affected by it..However, the day was not entirely bad, thanks to my dearest friends here who threw a surprise belated birthday bash for me at the Stulang Walk, Johor Baru.
 
Party of 11
Surprise!

 My cake


And here's the guest of honour again.  Sorry, I took so many photos I hope the flash didn't hurt the cat's eyes.
Cat
With Friends
with Lynn Mazlina A Majid and Redzuan Muharam 
Smiling
A big thank you to everyone from the bottom of my heart. Muah!

Meanwhile, please read  "A Plea For The Wetlands" which appeared in the New Straits Times today. 


Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Charlotte Monterio

Charlotte Monterio, 28, lives in Taman Setia Tropika, Johor Baru, with her husband Eric Yap, 31, and two-and-a half-year-old son Kai. Her second son is due in March.

 

Charlotte Monterio
Charlotte Monterio

A LOT of people think that the life of a public relations officer is filled with glamour. We get to meet people from the media, and entertain guests. Well, there is definitely more to that.

When I first joined the hotel industry after graduating from Universiti Sains Malaysia in August 2008, I was so frustrated I cried every single day. Working life was so different from campus days.

The first hotel I worked in was Dorsett Hotel Johor Baru, now known as Silka Johor Baru. As a public relations officer, I had to meet people, which was something that I enjoyed doing as I love to talk. In school, I was the most talkative girl in my class, and the noisiest of five sisters in my family. So being a public relations officer was just right for me, although I was to discover that one had to also be creative and versatile in other areas.

When I first joined the hotel industry, I was very fortunate to meet and work with Tengku Ahmad Faizal Tengku Mohamed, who was then the resident manager of Dorsett before he joined Pulai Springs Resort as its general manager. Tengku Ahmad Faizal was the one who first interviewed me, and he said: "I can see that you don't have the experience but you have the 'can-do' attitude." I did not know then that a public relations officer also had to design restaurant menus, handle all the decorations in the food and beverage outlets, come up with all kinds of creative ideas as well as go out and buy the decorations. I did not have any assistant, which meant I had to do everything myself.

 If I wanted a signage or decoration put up at the entrance of a food and beverage outlet, I had to climb up the ladder to put it there myself. But Tengku Ahmad Faizal encouraged and motivated me, and pretty soon, I was no longer a "cry baby." Whatever my bosses wanted me to do, I would just do it to the best of my ability. If I did not know how to do it, I would surf the Internet for the solution. Subsequently, I left to join a property development company but lasted only five months. I will never want another desk job that was so different from being in the hotel line. Hoteliers are so friendly and warm. They operate like one big happy family with the sole aim of making guests feel welcomed and relaxed. For that reason, I happily re-joined the hotel industry.

This time, I went to the Pulai Springs Resort and seven months after joining, I was promoted from senior public relations officer to assistant marcom manager. Last year, I was promoted to marcom manager for both Pulai Springs Resort and the Pulai Desaru Beach and Spa, both subsidiaries of the Pulai Group. I now have a team working under me. I am very grateful to Tengku Ahmad Faizal for believing in me. Now, I share with myteam members my experiences to motivate them. I know how hard it is for someone who has just joined the workforce.

Charlotte at work
Charlotte at work
I was born and bred in the Portuguese Settlement in Malacca, which I left behind when I went to further my studies in Penang. After that, I came to work in Johor Baru. Initially, I hardly went anywhere after work because of all the crime stories that one heard about. It took me a year before I had enough courage to go out for walks by myself. Then I met my husband Eric Yap and we married in December 2008.

Read more: Like working among family members - Johor - New Straits Times http://www.nst.com.my/streets/johor/like-working-among-family-members-1.413222#ixzz2lnemcS26