A Million Things To Do

I may have over-reacted last night. I was referring to my post  Dumbfounded.         .

That's why people say "a problem is not a problem but our reaction is the problem". If someone is rude, munafiq, arrogant, inconsiderate, selfish, calculative, uncaring and we get angry, offended, disappointed, frustrated .... we will never have Happy Days!

I think this wonderful revelation came from the late Charlotte Joko Beck in her book, Everyday Zen. 

When I went to the kiosk to make a payment for my Celcom number, the man who was manning the kiosk and who walks with a limp, was rather rude. But now that I think about it, his physical handicap could be a contributing factor to his "bad attitude". 

So when my number could not be found in the system, it triggered the impulse to write about the company which hired a Russian beauty to endorse its brand.  Actually, it's not really a big deal --- I mean my number not being in the system.  I can be an anonymous user.    

That's just me de-cluttering my thoughts. This is what happens when you don't know what to do on a day when you have nothing to do.

That's not completely true either. There are bills to pay, relatives and friends to visit and catch up with, pets to pat and projects to finish. There are a million things to do, like

making a cushion cover or a blanket from these leftover rags.

making my own costume jewellery. Please note that these are just some of my collection and none of the jewellery that you see in the picture were made by me. I have tried and the feedback was not too encouraging.

I once asked my friend if she could help me sell my jewellery online, those that I made myself, of course.  Her answer was a resounding NO. I said "Why not?" and she said I have no handiwork skills. 

Ok lah, I'll just have to find something else to do, like maybe, shopping ...?

Dumbfounded

"Celcom is the leader in telecommunication for 3 consecutive years".  Really?

I signed up for a phone line some time in July.  I went to a kiosk in Aeon Bukit Indah today to pay my bill.  The person manning the kiosk checked the system and said my number does not exist.  He has a very bad attitude, so I didn't want to ask him why my number was not in the system.

I then went over to a Celcom dealer in Giant Nusa Bestari, which is very near to Aeon Bukit Indah.  The lady here also could not find my number in the system, but as she was more "civilised" than the guy at the kiosk, I decided to ask her why.

She was just as amazed as I was.  The number is active, she says, but it is not in the system.  She directed me to go to the Celcom regional office in Kempas.

Before that, she helped me to call a customer service operator.  In the telephone conversation at 3.16pm I also took the opportunity to tell the customer service operator that I always encountered problems when I wanted to send my stories online because there was always no line.

Regarding this, the customer service operator suggested that I speak to a technical staff.  That wasn't very helpful.

I really have no patience for things like these because it is a waste of time. Why did Celcom give out a number and not have it in the system?  But then the number is active.  It is just not registered to anyone.  

One more question before I retire for the night.  Does anyone know why Chinese tea is called Chinese tea?

Someone asked me earlier today "What is the difference between green tea and Chinese tea? 

I was telling her "Rose tea is a brew of rose petals and Chrysanthenum tea is a brew of dried chrysanthemum flowers.  So she asked me if Chinese tea is from a plant called Chinese?

 

I never really thought of that.  I did some research and found that Chinese tea is made from the dried leaves of the Camellia Sinensis, an evergreen Shrub.

 

So

 

back to the question "What is the difference between green tea and Chinese tea?

 

Oh, it's after midnight.... way past my bedtime.  Selamat malam  晚安

 

 

Yellow Umbrella

There was a horrific traffic congestion along Jalan Skudai in Johor Bahru after a heavy downpour.  The city really has flood mitigation issues.

Flash flood also occurred at Kampung Pasir, Tampoi, which affected some 50 families living there and the four surrounding villages nearby. Among them was Kampung Asam Paya where firemen had to rush to the scene to assist. I believe no one was hurt.

The water receded at a fairly fast pace at Kampung Pasir. I got to walk bare-foot in the rain. It was quite fun. Saw a centipede scurrying along the road as the water receded.

Haah ... A wet day but it didn't dampen my spirit one little bit.

Come rain or shine, we must continue our journey with a smile.  This one is for Hoon, who lost her battle with cancer today.  I don't know her full name but I doubt I would ever forget Hoon who always showed a cheerful disposition and unwavering faith. 

Farewell, Hoon. 

Solidarity, Muktamar and VEP

Johor Pakatan members showing their solidarity at a Press conference in Johor Baru today and called on the national level to do the same as the focus of the Opposition coalition is the rakyat and not on personal whims.

However, they believed the Selangor political crisis will soon be over and a new chapter will soon begin which will see an even stronger coalition.

Pas is also gearing up for its 60th annual general meeting, which the party calls a Muktamar (Arabic term).  It is the 1st time, the Muktamar is held in Johor which is also coincidentally, Johor Pas' 60th anniversary.  A Muktamar is normally only held in states governed by the Islamic party.

The Muktamar will see the attendance of international participants and there will be cultural performances throughout the three-day gathering beginning Sept 18, to be held at Parit Salleh Ros in Parit Raja, Batu Pahat.

There will also be other gatherings in the IOI Resort in Kulaijaya (Sept 17); Dewan Choon Moi, Kota Tinggi (Sept 16 and 17) and Pulai Springs Resort, Johor Baru (Sept 17).

On  Sept 18 at 9am in the gathering at Pairt Salleh Ros, the party president Datuk Seri Abdul Hadi Awang will lay down all its strategies for the year.

Meanwhile, on another matter, Pakatan Rakyat called for Malaysians driving a Singapore-registered car into the republic to be exempted from Vehicle Entry Permit charges, which will be implemented next year on foreign-registered vehicles. 

Johor opposition leader Dr Boo Cheng Hau said the locals head to the republic to work from 5am to about 9pm, and they are contributing to the state's economy when they bring the money back to spend. Dr Boo said the steps taken by the government to impose VEP charges and toll hike was not rakyat-friendly and would add to the people's burden.

On time limit parking which the MBJB is proposing, Pakatan Rakyat says that it could work to free up parking congestion in the city but also called for stage bus services to be upgraded, namely, to provide services to more housing estates.
 

Blissfully Married

Deejay Dave, 55, of 101.9mhz is married to C. Usha Devi, 52, and the couple have 5 children.  Dave, who hails from Kluang now lives in Taman Damansara Aliff.

Dave and his wife, daughter and mother-in-law celebrating Onam at home.

by Dave A. Madhavan

I LIVE in Taman Damansara Aliff, Johor Baru, with my wife, youngest daughter and mother-in-law.

During festivals, all my sons and daughters will come back.

Like the Onam, for instance, a harvest festival widely celebrated only by the Malayalees, the house will be filled with merriment and joy.

My wife, C. Usha Devi, will prepare 11 vegetarian dishes for the occasion.

For Onam, we must always have either 11, 13 or 15 types of dishes.

The number of dishes must be in odd numbers.

The meal consists of payasam and pradhaman which are milk or coconut milk-based desserts made from bananas, jackfruit, rice, green-gram, dhal, broken wheat or other items.

Usha would start cooking the dishes from 8am and be done by 1pm.

The meal would then be served on a banana leaf.

My daughters would help out at the kitchen while I would be given the “hardest” task — peeling onions and garlic.

Usha, a nurse at the Johor Specialist Hospital, is a very good cook.

I love her cooking. We have been married since 1986, and we have five beautiful children — two sons and three daughters.

While we would be busy preparing the meals, my sons would be busy preparing a clay cone to be placed in the middle of the kolam design at the porch. Flower petals are also strewn on the kolam.

The boys would then make preparations for the ritual observed during Onam.

My sons have to dig the mud from the soil to make the clay figure. The clay cone symbolised the legendary King Mahabali.

The whole family then gathers at the porch to light the lamp which signifies the welcoming of King Mahabali who brings wealth into the household.

I joined Radio Televisyen Malaysia in 1982, where I was based in Johor Baru until 2007.

From 2007 to 2009, I was based in Kuala Lumpur.

During the three years I was based there, I missed my home so much even though I enjoyed my job.

Although my wife and I have been married for 28 years, our love for each other is as strong as the day we met. The secret to a blissful marriage is trust. Don’t hide anything from your spouse.

Being a deejay on JohorFM and KLFM, I have many fans. There were some who wanted to get to know me better.

I have fans asking me: “Abang Dave dah kahwin belum?” (Dave, are you married?)

My wife does not get jealous or angry when I tell her about them.

And that is because she trusts me.

I am also known as the “Unity Deejay”, being the only non-Muslim deejay of 101.9FM.

I am on air from 6am to 10am from Wednesday to Friday.

During my leisure time, I also work as an emcee.

I have been the emcee of the World Kite Festival annually for the past 18 years.

Being a deejay, it is essential to know several languages.

I can converse in Malay, English and Tamil and also speak a smattering of Mandarin.

My youngest son attends a Chinese school.

- sourced from NST online

Happy Onam

"Vanakkam"

Enjoyed a vegetarian lunch with 11 types of dishes at the home of Dave A. Madhavan, a JohorFM deejay at Radio Televisyen Malaysia (RTM).

If you tune into 101.9mhz on Wednesday to Friday from 6am to 10am, you will know who Dave is.

The dishes were cooked by Dave's lovely wife, Usha Devi in celebration of the Onam, a major harvest festival that is celebrated annually by the Malayalees.

This is Dave (left) with Usha Devi and the couple's five children and other relatives.

I love this shot of Mary with a baby. The tyke is Usha Devi's sister's four-month-old daughter.

And that's me with Mary, Dave and Usha Devi just as we were about to tuck into the home-cooked vegetarian cuisine. Such a blessed day.